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In the effort of “research,” I have been reading up on other blogs. I am researching for both content and style. I am also looking to see the “other side” of my story. Ignorance really is bliss.

I have stumbled upon a few blogs about gay married men or gay men that have recently been divorced. These blogs are insightful, revealing, a few of them well-written and researched. However, by the fifth or sixth one I read I started crying. Do not get me wrong, most of these gay men speak highly of their wives. They speak of their strength, kindness, and mostly of their discretion. Because they are either still married or divorced quietly, none of these women, according to their own blog’s account, made a big fuss over this whole “gay business.” I too divorced quietly but then moved several states away because I could no longer bear the weight of a secret that was not my own. It also hurt me to see him with other men. Sometimes the men were friends we had in common. As awkward as it might be at a party when two women exchange glances knowing they have slept with the same man, imagine if that exchange were between a man and a woman.