It seems unfair that men have to accept every single sexual act, thought, etc. of their girlfriends or wives or else they are "slut shaming." How is that healthy? So he has to swallow every sexual impulse or action that his girlfriend has or he is a misogynistic asshole? Not fair! If she came to him and said, "hey, I am really into this blog and it excites me to put pictures of myself on there, but I wanted to see what you thought first" and then he lost his shit and called her a whore, that would be slut shaming.
https://bugs.limesurvey.org/view.php?id=11806
https://spurstartup.mn.co/posts/9357926
https://app.emaze.com/@AOWTLRFFF/2-common-problems-with-dating#untitled
https://pastebin.freepbx.org/view/d2ec32c4
https://www.worldwetlandsday.org/display-event?eventEntryId=722700&redirect=%2Fdashboard%23event722700
https://www.worldwetlandsday.org/web/slayalicantov/home/-/blogs/finding-a-soulmate
https://www.worldwetlandsday.org/web/slayalicantov/home/-/blogs/expats-dating
https://smoothcomp.com/it/club/24579
https://matters.news/@slayalicantov/%E6%9C%AA%E5%91%BD%E5%90%8D-bafyreidki7nkfueb7thansqdgv7co2ntrb7lxersmuvgh62g7t274zmzhy
https://matters.news/@slayalicantov/do-you-need-some-tips-for-dating-men-bafyreicucfutckmdy4cxkq22lkvdka7p5irn6hrh5uy5vrndiy5fmm2uue
https://aizuwakamatsu.mylocal.jp/web/user.46576626/home/-/blogs/being-open-to-finding-true-love
https://aizuwakamatsu.mylocal.jp/web/user.46576626/home/-/blogs/living-with-your-ex
http://www.mikes.educv.ro/web/eharmony/home/-/blogs/322637
http://www.mikes.educv.ro/web/eharmony/home/-/blogs/top-10-dating-tips-for-men
https://git.bolin.su.se/snippets/660
http://www.mikes.educv.ro/web/eharmony/home/-/blogs/322652
https://training.joniandfriends.org/eportfolios/390/Home/The_Disadvantages_of_Friends_with_Benefits
https://muut.com/loveawake/#!/general:do-you-want-true-love-find
the thing that's not totally clear in the first letter is whether or not she was up front with her boyfriend about the blog and what was on it. she says he 'discovered' it, which implies that he didn't know about it before, but then later says that he'd tease her about it, which implies that he did. i think that's the key difference, because the core principle of any relationship is honesty. nothing- underwear photos online, flirting, kinks, sex with other people- is necessarily wrong if it's undertaken honestly, but any one of those things done clandestinely can be a serious breach of trust. it wasn't just being 'open' and 'expressive' if she couldn't or wasn't expressing it to her boyfriend, it's sharing a part of her sexuality with the anonymous internet that she wasn't sharing with him, and it's totally understandable that he would feel confused and hurt by that.
https://bugs.limesurvey.org/view.php?id=11806
https://spurstartup.mn.co/posts/9357926
https://app.emaze.com/@AOWTLRFFF/2-common-problems-with-dating#untitled
https://pastebin.freepbx.org/view/d2ec32c4
https://www.worldwetlandsday.org/display-event?eventEntryId=722700&redirect=%2Fdashboard%23event722700
https://www.worldwetlandsday.org/web/slayalicantov/home/-/blogs/finding-a-soulmate
https://www.worldwetlandsday.org/web/slayalicantov/home/-/blogs/expats-dating
https://smoothcomp.com/it/club/24579
https://matters.news/@slayalicantov/%E6%9C%AA%E5%91%BD%E5%90%8D-bafyreidki7nkfueb7thansqdgv7co2ntrb7lxersmuvgh62g7t274zmzhy
https://matters.news/@slayalicantov/do-you-need-some-tips-for-dating-men-bafyreicucfutckmdy4cxkq22lkvdka7p5irn6hrh5uy5vrndiy5fmm2uue
https://aizuwakamatsu.mylocal.jp/web/user.46576626/home/-/blogs/being-open-to-finding-true-love
https://aizuwakamatsu.mylocal.jp/web/user.46576626/home/-/blogs/living-with-your-ex
http://www.mikes.educv.ro/web/eharmony/home/-/blogs/322637
http://www.mikes.educv.ro/web/eharmony/home/-/blogs/top-10-dating-tips-for-men
https://git.bolin.su.se/snippets/660
http://www.mikes.educv.ro/web/eharmony/home/-/blogs/322652
https://training.joniandfriends.org/eportfolios/390/Home/The_Disadvantages_of_Friends_with_Benefits
https://muut.com/loveawake/#!/general:do-you-want-true-love-find
the thing that's not totally clear in the first letter is whether or not she was up front with her boyfriend about the blog and what was on it. she says he 'discovered' it, which implies that he didn't know about it before, but then later says that he'd tease her about it, which implies that he did. i think that's the key difference, because the core principle of any relationship is honesty. nothing- underwear photos online, flirting, kinks, sex with other people- is necessarily wrong if it's undertaken honestly, but any one of those things done clandestinely can be a serious breach of trust. it wasn't just being 'open' and 'expressive' if she couldn't or wasn't expressing it to her boyfriend, it's sharing a part of her sexuality with the anonymous internet that she wasn't sharing with him, and it's totally understandable that he would feel confused and hurt by that.